How do you feel about discussing sex? What can I do to help you feel more comfortable talking about sex?

How do you feel about our current level of intimacy and frequency?

What non-sexual things make you feel most desired and wanted by me?

Is there something you wish I knew but haven’t felt comfortable sharing?

What do you enjoy most about our intimacy?

What makes you feel most connected to me during sex?

Is there anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or disconnected during sex?

Are there any boundaries you’d like to discuss or update?

How do you feel about talking during sex?

How do you feel about giving and receiving feedback about what feels good?